The C today even pushed me on it a bit when I was sitting there next to my W. I stopped him short "Stop!, Why are you pushing us to get divorced when we haven't decided that is what we want ourselves" He apologized and backpedaled a bit.
Man up! Good for you! Even better he apolgized and backpedaled!
Originally Posted By: Thinker
This does, however, seem to be their standard mode: If a couple comes in who aren't happy and who aren't making steps toward reconciliation, then start working them toward a decision to D.
This is it in a nutshell. Blatantly happened in my MC experience.
Originally Posted By: Thinker
Both of these people are IC's who venture into MC, not full time MC's. I have yet to find someone who focuses on MC.
Keep looking. Call The National Association of Social Workers (NASW) in your state.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
