Ahem, Hi Soldierdad. Im glad that you got some of the finances in order. Im sure that it was empowering, and it gave you something else to think about! I also agree that the reason that she is being so nasty is that you arent playing into her plan that shes been working so hard on, AND its been playing out so smoothly until you had to come along and spoil it all! I picture the WAS stomping their little feet and poking their bottom lip out like a 2 year old. At least I know that it made my 31 y/o H turn into an angsty, bitchy 14 year old boy.
I would certainly be prepared to hear "I dont want to hurt you, but YOU made me do this!" Some how, it will be ALL your fault, Im sure. I heard "No one understands!" more than once- I finally told him "Im sorry that you cant find someone to tell you that abandoning your marriage for a married woman is a good idea!"
Dont let her get you twisted and make you forget that you know what the right thing to do is.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
