Moving merrily down the tunnel

[kjensen]

I agree- WOW! a mature, adult thought-out apology. You are making progress(as is your wife)...Keep expectations low...
Good for you D!

[D Money]

Oh I forgot to put the 2nd part of this. I had waited a few hours before I responded. It was like she was waiting for me because she answered within a minute "Thank you. I am sorry for being a b*tch. I didn't consider your feelings. I am truly sorry."

[D Money]

Nothing really to update. I'm struggling with the whole friend thing. I know I'm supposed to treat her as a friend and I do enjoy the friendship, but part of me wonders whether she will be content with the way things are. I fear that she will get "stuck".

[CMNM]

Hi there! Pam here...you know, overly talkative girl, Irish Restaurant.

Just a quick thought...

The friendship is a necessity. I know it is hard not to have expectations and hopes that it will become something more, but you can't go there. Not yet. If you feel you are giving too much to the friendship, pull back a little. I mean, I have lots of friends that I don't stress over not talking to every day or every other day.

You say you enjoy the friendship....
well, isn't that a good thing???

Don't overthink this or get ahead of yourself.

[D Money]

Pam!!!!

How are you doing?

Yeah I tend to overthink sometimes.

Thanks. You really put things in perspective for me.

[fisherman]

I mean, I have lots of friends that I don't stress over not talking to every day or every other day.

Really! You can say that again!!

What's up D !

[CMNM]

D-

Hey there!
Hope you had a Merry Christmas! How are things?

-P

[D Money]

Christmas was good. I had Christmas Day with the kiddos.

I had a bit of a setback yesterday. Nothing to do with my wife. I've been having pain in my fingers for the past month so I went to the doctor yesterday. I am waiting for blood test results to come back but the thinking is I have arthritis.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Use the other hand

[D Money]

I would but it's in both hands.