Oh, he said that if I wanted to make plans for the nights he is going out to let him know and he would cancel his plans and watch the kids.

I don't know how to convey the saddness that has settled over me. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month