"Let Go and move on," they each say, "It's time to find someone who loves you"
I don't get how a trained professional can tell you to "find someone who loves you." You need to love yourself and be okay with yourself. Move on, let go, yes. But find someone who loves you implies that it should be top of your list and I disagree whole-heartedly. But then again, what do I know?
I can tell you that right now I don't have H and I don't have my eye on anyone else. And, I am happy on my own. It is an awesome place to be. Doesn't mean I wont ever be with him or someone else, just means that I am good on my own too. Feels very healthy.