He wants to come home....HELP!

[TrentC]

Am I supposed to just say ok, have fun!

Yep, pretty much.

It hurts that he doesn't want to spend more time with me at home. It seems to me that he would rather spend his time living the single life.

But he came home, right? Coming home is just a step, not the whole journey.

You might need to give him some time and space to adjust to the new way of things.

To be honest, I am hurt. He doesn't want to be home with his family unles it fits into his life. I am at work right now trying not to cry.

You can't let this kind of thing get to you. If you do, you'll never be able to pull off doing the more difficult parts of this.

He's still in chaos and confused, and his words and actions will bear that out. Just be patient, and give him a reason to miss you. Maybe the next time he wants to change your date night, you should say "oh, I already have plans to go out that night".