Ok, so he has made tentaive plans to go out to a bar with his single friends to a bar on Thursday. He changed our date night from Thurs to Tuesday. He also has plans to go to his friends house and watch the football game Saturday. I work Mon-Wed-Fri nights he has plans Thur and Sat.

Am I supposed to just say ok, have fun! It hurts that he doesn't want to spend more time with me at home. It seems to me that he would rather spend his time living the single life.

To be honest, I am hurt. He doesn't want to be home with his family unles it fits into his life. I am at work right now trying not to cry.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month