Mindfull - maybe we are married to the same guy as a million other woman are LOL Three teens are rough. I thought they were tough when they were toddlers - that was nuthin lol I feel like sometimes I live in a frat house. My kids are good though I guess I can't complain too much. I feel like I've done all the raising - taught them all the manners and morals and such. H is home alot more than other husbands but has not been a very good father. I guess I judge him harshly here bcuz even though we are two I feel alone in raising them. He is here but "not here" know what I mean? Please don't think I'm sounding harsh - it is what it is. My H is just not there for me and the kids. To the outside world he seems swell but I know the truth frown

anyway...thanks for coming by M - hugz!


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10