Hi CTH, Thanks so much for stopping by. I know many people here have the same dread of getting that letter from the L. I've had better Thanksgivings. But really it would have been much worse if I hadn't been on here~ Back in Aug., H said he wanted to file "ASAP". What he meant was, he wanted me to roll over & do whatever he wanted, which was just agree to everything & do a sep. agrmt. He didnt' speak to me for over a mo., then texted me out of the blue on Halloween (how ironic).
I still don't want the D but know I cannot trust him, & I have to protect myself. I looked at the draft agrmt. & wondered where they got some of this stuff. I knew it would be a waste of time to meet w him beforehand. Anyway, it was upsetting to read but I talked to my L & told her I needed time to absorb. She said let her know end of this week. I dont' know if I'll be ready then either, we'll see! I like my L, but if I need more time I need more time.
CTH, I hope you are doing OK. I will stop by your thread soon. Thanks for your support. You have mine as well!