I re-thought what I just wrote about Christmas time with the boys. Somewhere, I read in DB/Dr that it is OK to not always be Right. The question was; do you want to be right, or do you want to be married?
Maybe in my case it's best to let it go, and just work with my initial dates that I agreed upon with my W. I know I should stand up and be firmer. But is this a battle that I need to fight? My point is that I WILL see the boys either before or AFTER Christmas. So that's my follow-up thought...
JR
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11