I agree with both of you.....I'm prepared to say my stipulations to coming back home are you get on medication again and do individual counseling for yourself as well as marriage. If you can't agree to those terms we don't have much to work on or I'll be going back to my parents.
??? I guess that's what I"m thinking anyway?
That sounds like you are suggesting that he move in THEN get medication and IC? I may have misunderstood. I would suggest he straightens himself out and THEN you see if he can move back in.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"