Yep, I knew this is what I would hear from you fine folks...
I do get it, I do.
He does seem very genuine with the changes, and his realizations both about her and the consequences...
BUT... I am not taking into account the addictive nature of the R as well as his weakened state. Those are very good points.
Our conversations come in spurts these days, because they are difficult and painful and we are both treading carefully. So, I will just have to make sure to work this into one of these "spurts"...
This morning he said he is finding himself more and more drawn to me again.... DBing does work folks! so, I'm keeping that up too, no matter what.