Thanks Tristan. Its nice to hear that others have come back from this far into it.
I have accepted the possibilities, but would of course prefer reconciliation. W seems completely shut off emotionally. Even toward S to some extent. About an hour ago we spoke on the phone for a few minutes about S's rough night last night. She seems so clinical about it. I would have thought she would be more loving. She doesn't seem to take any responsibility for it. Mindreading on my part I guess.
Either way, its nice to know that some make it back from the abyss.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.