Thanks Tristan. Its nice to hear that others have come back from this far into it.

I have accepted the possibilities, but would of course prefer reconciliation. W seems completely shut off emotionally. Even toward S to some extent. About an hour ago we spoke on the phone for a few minutes about S's rough night last night. She seems so clinical about it. I would have thought she would be more loving. She doesn't seem to take any responsibility for it. Mindreading on my part I guess.

Either way, its nice to know that some make it back from the abyss.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.