I just want to say. Thank you for volunteering in the Armed Services and putting yourself in harms way to help protect our freedoms. You are loved, prayed for, and repsected from all the way across that big ocean.
You take the high road with your W and I'll take the low road. That's what my friend says... she rags ass on my H and I let her cause it feels good to let someone else do it LOL not productive for me to do it.
That said it really pisses me off that your W is doing this while you are gone but even more so giving the circumstances you are in. I wish she could be dropped in and live your life for one day. Makes me so darned angry for you.
The whole threat about your CO is jokeable... what would they say about her planning to withhold your children while your on leave from a FREAKING war zone. It's good she is foolish enough to put this in writing. As the others say you need a good attorney and but let her bury herself first.
I am sorry you are dealing with this. I am concerned for your safety and want to make sure that your head is in the place when you are on duty. Do it for your kids.
Plus on the upside... good men in uniforms look hot..... just remember that. Put your manly soldier face on and know that you are honorable, dependable, trustworthy, a loving father, and you don't need to take her spew anymore.
Be Safe!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too