Be the man you want to be given her circumstances. I would stop asking and looking for her to guide you. She doesn't know what she wants/needs right now. That is crystal clear.
I think if you could muster up the courage to take charge here, it is your best chance, not only to save the marriage (you're already dead, right?) but to be proud of yourself and the man you have become.
Well put. This makes sense to me. Greek
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