Originally Posted By: stu321
One thing I would like to ask as well, is that my wife asked about the properties on Sunday night, and said that if let her buy me out, she would find a way to make the repayments. This upsets me, cause she's willing to find a way to keep the house, but she's not willing to try to find a way to keep our family together. I would really love to say this to her, but I think it will have a negative impact. Would be interested to get peoples comments ?

Thanks.


You are right. This isn't a sitcom; there aren't many cutting or snarky remarks you can make that will help.

If you have an emotional reaction, especially one based in fear, anger, or sorrow, then you are likely to make things worse.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."