Once he told me he was changing banks, I knew I had to do something to guarantee he paid. I don't trust him to pay. I started out thinking he would never to anything to screw over the kids, but now I'm not so sure...
When it comes to divorce, it never pays to be too careful. It's an adversarial system (as PDT says, that's why there is a "v." between your name and his), and your husband will be looking out for his own interests if he has half an ounce of brains.
Plus, you have kids to be concerned about; if not for yourself, go to the mat for them. They deserve to have at least one parent that will be there for them, and you cannot count on it being your husband.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
