Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Like I said, it gets confusing. We did/are talk of R, that's where the piecing bit came in. However, we are full blown divorced, so, like I've said, it's a clean slate now. Sure, there's kids and the history of it all, but, it would start out as just 'dating'. For what it's worth, I find the concept of dating your ex-wife much more comfortable than your estranged, adultrus wife .

So yes slow and graceful, and that's going to be hard because there was so much emotion flowing over the table last night, and no I'm not all melty gooey about it, I don't know how to explain it other than like that feeling when you know a person is going to be someone special when you meet them.

I mean, you got your W back right? Was that energetic feeling not there in your sitch and just slowly work it's way back in or something? That's why my situation has always perplexed me. Every body else seemed to just lose that feeling with their S all together. For us, it never left. Yeah, she was off with OM and all, but I could take comfort in I had something he didn't, doesn't and never will.