You have several very wise people here giving you great advise.
ACT AS IF : You have one or more men pursuing you. Completely ignore H. Push him away. File for D. IE WAKE HIM UP TO THE CONSEQUENCES OF HIS CURRENT CHOICES!!!!!!
Please have faith in OUR words. We know what works and what does not work.
O ya, I have something for you:
Two dozen roses. The most beautiful you have seen. Start asking around to see if you can figure out who sent them to you!
HUGS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712