My challenge remains finding out what exactly that is.
The process is trial and error. "Being the husband I want to be" means trying without hesitation - just doing it. If she rejects it, ok, then I'll adjust.
(I have already had to "adjust" several times, and admittedly, the adjustments are not easy for me )
I can handle it.
Last edited by Thinker; 11/30/0907:47 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.