Yes, it's something I have heard from time to time. I agree--to me it feels arbitrary and overly general. Just wondered if others had gotten clobbered with this sentiment, and what folks might think about it. Certainly not passing any judgement or giving any direction--I'd be the last one to do that!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012