Yes, it's something I have heard from time to time. I agree--to me it feels arbitrary and overly general. Just wondered if others had gotten clobbered with this sentiment, and what folks might think about it. Certainly not passing any judgement or giving any direction--I'd be the last one to do that!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012