Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Well, Puppy, I see where you are coming from and that's where it gets complicated.

I'm sorry if in my giddiness last night if I mislead anybody, but it's not like she's coming home or anything, we don't have a home or M anymore. All of this just came to surface in the past few days and what she says she wants to do. She has not made a commitment yet that this is what she will do.

So if I just start laying out what she can and can't do, I'd might as well start throwing darts at the calander for March of next year, as that is when she'll speak to me again at the earliest. However, when she "wanted" to come home previously, and we had a home and a MR to come home to, YES, I did at that time lay those boundries. And each and everytime since, especially now this time given how serious she seems, I only remind her, those boundries have already been set and she knows what she needs to do.

I don't know, does that make any sense?