We tried once and I remember he did something that was so out of "us" but he seemed really comfortable with it. Nothing big, a small change in the repertoire, which completely ruined evrything cause I sensed it was something he did with someone else.
Reminds me of the chocolate cake scene in The Family Man with Nicholas Cage. Yes..it's sad. They go out and find pleasure in another person, then, try things they like with other people to see if it 'fits' back in the old sitch....to try and retest the waters.
Don't force the intimacy. It sounds like it feels awkward now. Don't push it. Let it happen naturally if it will. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
