Well, I just finished getting all the account numbers, and changing the payment method so that I pay everything except her car. I will have to deposit some $$ into the joint account to pay some bills I can't get to - electricity, gas/water/trash, cable. But it was extremely empowering to finally take care of all that, and know that they will in fact get paid on time. The person that is "spewing", is NOT the woman I have children with. Knowing how WAS reacts, what should I expect next from her???


"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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