Brainstorming here is good! It is the actions that we take which matter, not the feelings or thoughts but brainstorming helps to weigh decisions that lead to actions.

W called but did not leave a message.
How about #5 YOU DID NOT CALL HER BACK (your ACTION) which is another message to her that you are serious about NC.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004