h is in mlc, now threatening divorce...

[praying_in_GA]

After reading your stitch, I realize where I have gone wrong. Thank you! LOL!! I have lost all hold I had on the basics of DR as soon as he moved back in...I have made him miserable.

The detaching, allowing space, GAL, and becoming a happier person really does help. It will give him time to work on himself without dealing with you and the problems you bring with you. H didn't talk of coming home until a week into my successful DRing. Now that he is here I have reverted to my old nagging, controlling, talkative ways and he is moving father away with every passing minute.

Give it a try and see what happens. I think you will be surprised at the results.