that gives me some help, i'm really bad about being patient and know this is just the beginning. i can't get him to do anything until he's ready so just go on with my life as though he does not exist or is part of my decision process.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline