There are "men's rights" legal associations, from whom you could probably get a referral in your area. My guy was only $2,500 retainer (wife's was $3,500), he ONLY did family law (hers mostly did criminal and real estate law, and had only recently gotten into family law), and he only worked with men.
He was extremely sharp, and I was impressed with how the judges and clerks all knew him, and his attention to detail (like having a self-addressed, stamped envelope for the clerk to use to send us our copies of docs).
