Originally Posted By: Jstar
Thank you for the encouragement.

that's for sure he's not thinking or acting straight. i just get the feeling that i'm fighting a loosing battle.


About 2 months ago, I remember telling a friend of mine that my marriage is over and I don't see any way of salvaging it. Things are a lot different now than they were then (not that we're totally out of the woods).

It is difficult to see the big picture, especially when part of it is locked up in your husband's head. Just keep working on your part of the relationship.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."