Jstar, I meant what is the most involvement with H's family that you could tolerate? For example, if he stopped paying for them but continued to see them 3 days per week, would that be acceptable to you? I am not saying you SHOULD, I am just asking if you COULD...it is unrealistic to expect him to cut them out (not that you are wanting that) so what are you willing to tolerate?
What specific conditions did you set for him in order to reconcile?
I wonder if because last time you took him back that he is just not taking this seriously. Good job with NC!
Also
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004