<<She satisfied him in all ways.>>
Evidently not...ALL.....ways.

<<Now I have to believe that I am?>>
If you do not, this (back and forth) will never end.....

<<I cant imagine ever being HAPPY with him>>
I understand what you are saying .... I don't want to sound clicheish ... but you can not rely on him to be happy. Sure he can contribute to your happinees as do all those in your life.

I guess the question I have is will you be happier without him???