Before hitting "send" re-read it several times and try to look at it LIKE SOME SHARK DIVORCE LAWYER would look at it, and don't send it if you feel it's in any way incriminating.
Who do you have representing you?
Puppy
Ding, ding, ding! You already know your wife has legal counsel, so if you don't have your own you need to get a lawyer ASAP.
After that, any attempt to give you anything to sign or look over should be met with "thanks, I'll get with my attorney to review this as soon as I can, and get back to you."
There is nothing wrong with looking out for yourself: divorce is an adversarial process, and she is not your friend and ally in this.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
