If there are four words that are guaranteed to strike terror into any man, even the most hardened. Those words are "We need to talk" In my opinion they should be stricken from every woman's vocabulary on the planet. When a man hears those words this is what he understands:
I used to feel this way. Now I embrace it.
It's the chicken and egg dance that gets debated here. If you are the one here then you need to be the one to change. So a woman needs to understand how a man thinks. And the opposite is true for a man. One of the smartest things the Greek did after she moved back was to ask me for all the books I had read on relationships, communication and self-help. Then she read them and discussed them with me.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.