It really sucks, too, to be a female in this culture where we're supposed to let the man lead, let it be his idea, etc. I feel like, it's okay for them to say what they want openly and pursue women, but we women, we could love somebody and want him to the point where it's killing us, and we STILL have to be quiet and demure and wait for him to make the first move.
That's an incorrect stereotype. Maybe true for some men, but not all! Just to add my vote here, I'm an HD male and I would love a woman who takes the intiative. She could grab me anytime, anywhere, unannounced. Just don't make it too obvious in public, that's all I ask! Otherwise, no exceptions. Wake me up at 4 am if you need it!
