I don't know. I wish I had better than that to tell you, but you seem like you need an answer from someone. I haven't read the book you're looking at (The Divorce Remedy? Is that right?) because I have a different problem to solve.
I can tell you that reading the Sex-Starved Marriage saved me and my marriage. I was floundering and dying until I read it and came here. It can't hurt to read the thing, and then you decide whether you want to try to use it or not. If you don't, you haven't lost anything. You read like you're being crushed by pain, so why not try something?
