What great progress these couple of days. It's good that H understands your concerns and is trying to address them. Also good that he understands that coming home with an R still with OW is intolerable and that he is being so open about their relationship.
That was very courageous of you to stand up against OW buying S jeans. That was inappropriate of her (probably just trying to win H back), but you handled it well.
Regarding your anniversary, I know you want to wait to see what happens, but it's going to be hard not to feel completely let down if he doesn't do anything. (I know people talk about detachment, but it seems to me that when you are in these rebuilding stages, you need to be a little more open then that). Just really try to prepare yourself b/c he may just not be ready to celebrate it yet. And just continue to take joy in the successes he is making! =)
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
