I wonder...should I be trying to "be there" for W or just be dark.

So far, its been only 5 days and we've barely spoken. We cried and hugged on Thanksgiving, but have only spoken (mostly texted) on things regarding S.

Does this make it easier for her to move on? Does it make me seem bitter (I am but don't want to seem that way).

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.