Very true. Sometimes I am so focused on our "family" that I forget about us as a couple. I'm little disappointed right now - H seems to be recoiling a bit, but I guess that should have been expected. He was just being kind of mean yesterday. We were talking about the brain scan and I told him they would probably be asking some sensitive questions (ie, about us) and he said, "welll, I have no problem telling them that I hate you." Ouch. Is this the same guy that gave me his jacket b/c i was cold on Wednedday and cuddled with me on the couch? Also, after I had spent hours filling out all the paperwork for the scan (worked with his mom to do the background info and then filled an 8 page questionaire to be filled out by himself and another person - me being the other person), he has the nerve to tell me that he should have had someone from work fill out the questionaire b/c they know him better. Ouch again. But I'm justing letting it go for now. The most important thing is that he gets help. This is what I have waited for and worked so hard for for so long and now it's finally happening. I called him this morning to make sure he was awake and he said he was getting ready. So I guess it's happening! Now, he just has to use and learn from this info he gets - ie. your brain has holes in it, you need to stop drinking! I am very interested in this whole process too, so I hope he shares it with me.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
