feel like giving up - talk to me!

[luvless]

G - my hero..thank you for the time you are taking to help me. You do sound alot like my husband (I guess most men huh?) Do you know how hard it is to tell a woman she can't "talk" to her husband? hardest thing to think about. It's so sad because that's how women solve their problems. I guess I have to learn a new way but you know...what about him? that is a MAJOR change on my part and what we will he do? I'm supposed to walk on eggshells when something is bothering me? it just sounds crazy. I am no crazy chase the husband with the broom kinda wife either..I always say in a nice tone - I'd like to talk about somethings or can we talk about some things? I agree with the "you're in big trouble mr." its just wrong and I don't wanna be associated with that!! I don't even know how to respond G - I'm really confused at this point - feeling defeated and ready to give up. This is what I have to look forward to? a silent life with my H - can't talk about anything cuz he can't take it? oh gawd help me. I am going back and forth so I'll stop now. I need to collect my thoughts - I wish I had the guts to walk out!