well d2 and i got up, drove to my niece's house, i dropped her off and came to work. h sent one msg. how is daughter? am I watching her or u take care of it? wow, hasn't seen her since tuesday, no contact or questions in almost a week and this is what he sent.
That is pretty crappy, but you can't let it get you down. Your husband is going to say and do things that seem crazy to you, because you are committed to working on your relationship while he is not, at least no right now.
There are no guarantees; but he can come around, if you play your cards right. You have to be strong enough to see this through.
Originally Posted By: Jstar
i think i'm fighting a loosing battle. Can anyone give me some hope, now i feel super crappy.
You will be fine, no matter how this turns out. Just keep in mind that your husband isn't thinking straight, and is hurting in his own way. If you can let this kind of thing roll off your back, you'll be in good shape to handle this.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement