Interesting turn of events for you. However, like you said, I can totally understand not trusting him with drugs and drinking.
Liking the attention I think is normal. Just keep in mind what you know from history and don't rush into it. It sounds like you have a good grip on reality so I don't think you will let things take you back down.
I agree with VD, a discussion abour rehab may not be a bad idea and you can always say for the baby's safety and for his ability to prove he can be a better father and a trustworthy father.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...