I must say, I have come far to not have any emotion or thought of them and let her speak candidly of him, whereas before even just referencing OM as him or you know who would just bring my blood to boil.
Dday, I hear what you're saying, but don't give her TOO much deference/respect when speaking of them. This:
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I just replied now, no, but if I could ask, are you? We'll see where that goes.
is too supplicating, in my opinion. Now is the time for calm STRENGTH, and loving boundaries.
