Neither me nor my W thought M would be such work. Both of our sets of parents fought all the time so -- I'm guessing on her part -- we both grew up thinking happy couples don't fight.

So when we did fight things would escalate and nothing would get settled and the wall kept building and then she started thinking "we're just too different. We never should have married."

The last good talk we had -- in September -- I told her we've worked so hard on D7 and her issues and she's finally showing progress, but we never worked on our issues. That's what I'm disappointed in.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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