He wants to come home....HELP!

[praying_in_GA]

Well, he told me last night "I have my head so far up my own ass that I am not thinking about you or our marriage. I want to make myself happy and until I do that I can't focus on the marriage like you want me to." Then he told me he would not leave the house again, that he would be fine co-habitating if we choose to separate again or get a D. He said if I am uncomfortable then I can leave. I swear, he is so lost. He has a different thing in his head every day. He also said he was coming home no matter what I said, he just asked to be polite.

He said he doesn't know if he finds me attractive, but I am pretty. Gee, thanks. I really think he is going through something bigger than he realizes. He said he is thinking of going to talk to someone individually. I told him that might help, but to watch out because some therapists are not marriage friendly and might suggest a D right off the bat.

So, all in all I am back where I started only he lives here now. I think I am just going to start DRing again no matter where he is or what he is doing. My life is my life and I am here with my kids.