Glad yesterday worked out so well in the end! I'm very happy Gnosis is sharing his male insight....I was going to try to relate some things I learned about my H at Retrouvaille, but Gnosis seems to be cutting right to the chase. He has a knack for translating Martian to us womenfolk. Thanks, Gno!
I have a couple of questions for you too. First, have you any thoughts on why your H seems to melt down at Thanksgiving/holiday time? Is his business cyclical, causing him additional stress...are there family/FOO triggers?
Secondly, you've mentioned several instances lately where he has hugged and kissed you. Is this new behavior? Do you still touch him affectionately without him flinching away? I know I stopped doing that with my H...I didn't think he even noticed...but he has recently shared with me that it was a source of great pain for him.
I know, that's more than a couple of questions.....
