Mindfull
Yup, I`m good. Have learnt such a lot from tall this. I think detachment is a necessary process but one that can`t be rushed. I`m getting on with my life without H and actually having fun.

Yup, I have a little fear especially re affects on the kids and the dire change in financial circumstances which separation will bring but while prepping as best I can for that, I also have to leave it in God`s hands.

The mediation process has been dragged out through no fault of my own-strike here and my accident halted it for a while-and I`m happy with that.

But I`m going with the flow and glad of the learning.