Well, I suppose that if everything goes as expected tomorrow, I'll be starting a new thread. I suppose I should move to Surviving.... though moving to a new neighborhood is always a little stressful.
I'm sad, there's no way around that. I agree with Kalni, I don't think there was any other outcome possible, other than continuing the status quo, but it still hurts. But I'm ok.
BBJ, You, and me should all move together. This D of mine is steamrolling right along.
Be thinking of you!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
I'll be visiting too, unless I find a nice condo over in Surviving that will make me change my mind and move there as well!
Jeff, it's only a day, a piece of paper, a signature..., whatever. It's been too long that you are holding on to the thought of a M, your wife removed herself from it, years ago. Live your life, this is not a rehearsal! Hugs K
I'm sorry this is happening. I think I said on my thread that even though we know it is happening and have accepted it (even instigated it after doing everything humanly possible), it still sucks.
(((Jeff))) You will be ok. I know right now you are a bundle of nerves but really you will get past this just fine. Everyone has moved on and now it is just the formality.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Jeff: YUM!! That recipe would most certainly become a disaster here! I can't bake AT ALL! I can't even make Pillsbury Crescent Rolls correctly! It's odd... I'm a pretty good cook, and fall SO short on baking. Must be that patience thing!
Thinking about you today!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.