Stu, I'm sorry I ever said anything b/c it was not my intent to depress you. It's just that I have read so many posts similar to yours and the H would walk away expecting to see some positive reaction from the talk about the R with his WAW. I don't think I've ever seen a case where that happened. Yes, there have been couples to get back together, but I'm saying not after a conversation like that. It takes time and the WAW seeing how the LBH has changed, but I've not seen where a talk turns the WAW around like you were hoping. Some see that as negative thinking, but I see it as being realistic. I just hated to see you set yourself up for disappointment. Anyway, I'm sorry for bringing you down so low.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
