He is ending the call first - I think I would like to change that from the next conversation on.
We chat about lots of things - work, his new appartment, our kids, our house, sport, finances. When he started to tell me he was unhappy with me in April these conversations were a real drag - honestly it was like talking to en empty fridge - he didn't say 2 words - it's so much more relaxed now. He even gave me the address to his new appartment - you might think this is weird but you see I had a PI set on him on his last one and I didn't think he would give me the new address but he did.We don't have any relationship talk at all which is the way I think is the best right now - one of the reasons he felt he couldn't reconcile was that I would hold his "friendships/affairs" forever over his head and he didn't want to live like that - I had many angry/ emotional outbursts and they are now gone for the last 2 months - I am not sure if his bahaviour has something to do with it.
It's hard not to get your hopes up though as he is changing more and more - even the conversations with the kids are getting better, not great but better.
