Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

I have another question all. If W brings up the M, or R, in any way, while I am home for the 2 weeks, do I talk to her about it? If so, in what context? What are some of the things I should focus on? Should I admit to my part in this, or just listen to her? I am really not sure how to handle this part. The last thing I want to do is dig up the "old way" we did things. But I am afraid that is where it will go to. I also don't wish to become defensive, or offensive, as I know she is going to say some hateful things to me. I want to be able to react in a calm, cool, confident manner, without accepting all of the blame myself. Now, I have NO idea if she will bring it up, but knowing my W, she will do/say whatever she can to hurt me, and that will be based upon the past and my failings in the R/M. Thoughts?